This is Tom in New York
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Well, let’s hope you find someone equally gorgeous when you get your sight back.
I’ve been a bit worried, if I’m honest, how much I will have aged since I could last see my face very well. I’ll suddenly be living with the reflection of an old woman! I still see myself the way I looked when I was younger.
Well, a small price to pay. Have a good trip over and I look forward to meeting you, if you have time for small talk. It sounds as if you’ll be too busy flirting and checking out the talent.
Good for you.
Are you for real?! How can you be so shallow? I pity anyone who ends up beside you in the morning, whatever they look like.
Well you taught me something I didn’t know. I thought blind guys wouldn’t care what people look like.
I’m going to Zagreb with my husband so he can have the treatment. Now I’m really worried he won’t fancy me when he can see me.
I don’t think I’m bad looking, but he might think so. I might not look anything like he imagines I do. He’s never seen me. I’m so scared that too much will change if he can see and he doesn’t need me so much
I might be crying on your shoulder if he doesn’t like the look of me after all this.
You’re an idiot. What does it matter what people look like. You should count yourself lucky you’re getting laid at all with an attitude like that.
Hi Tom, I totally get it. Why should we end up with everyone else’s leavings at the end of the night? I can’t tell you how many gruesome guys I’ve ended up with because I can’t see how ugly they are in clubs. My so called friends are all too busy getting the decent blokes for themselves; they just fob me off with some drunken monster. I’m sick of it. I’m going to see if I can get on the trials.
I get what your saying, I get so frustrated not being able to have eye contact, not being able to work out what peoples responses are but when I was sighted I had a pretty rough choice in men physically now I’m, losing my sight i have found that I am much better at working out personality wise and with its easy enough to work out body shape when your near to somebody.
Obviously getting your sight will be wonderful but be careful cos its easy enough to jump into bed with an attractive idiot. Its far nicer to not only like how they look in the morning but actually want them to hang around.
Sight is good for alot of things but I find for my perception of other people it is not so helpful.
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